Don't Just Stand There, Do Something!

It took awhile before I finally listened to Eminem's song "I Love the Way You Lie". I normally change the radio dial when his songs come on the air. However, when I found out that Rihanna sang the hook, I decided not to change the radio station. Rihanna surprised me with her lyrics. How can someone mock what she has been through? Then, maybe her lyrics express how the victims of domestic abuse feel at some point.

"Just gonna stand there and watch me burn/Well that's alright because I like the way it hurts/Just gonna stand there and hear me cry/Well that's alright because I love the way you lie". Very poignant and thought-provoking words. For Rihanna perhaps participating in the collaboration helped her heal and helps others heal and feel empowered too. But, what happens when you don't escape from that mentality and the volatile relationship?

First, a woman or man can call the hotline against domestic violence at 1-800-799-SAFE. Anonymous and completely confidential, the hotline provides someone around the clock to talk to. It is a great resource for education and finding local agencies that work to bring an end to domestic abuse. Domestic abuse is a horrendous occurence that can affect all ages and all genders. So, if you think someone you know is being abused or you are being abused, do not waste valuable and precious time, please call the hotline to find out how you or someone you know can get help before a life-threatening injury takes place or it perpetuates more violence in or out of the home.

Besides the National Domestic Violence Hotline, there are many other resources and organizations like the National Coalition Against Violence that support the victims of abuse. These agencies work for the public and are usually non-profit thus are in need of donations to continue operating efficiently and effectively. To donate, contact an agency and ask how.

Today, the Senate Judiciary Committee meets to discuss the lack of full investigations of sex crimes in the U.S. Many of these crimes are domestic in nature. To watch the hearing as it takes place today at 2:15 pm, visit  the National Coalition Against Violence website where a link is provided.

Though justice for sex crimes here in the U.S. is not always delivered, there are still plenty of resources for the victims. Victims can escape from the life-threatening relationships, protect themselves, get help, and heal inside and out.

Need motivation? Watch the Eminem featuring Rihanna music video " I Love the Way You Lie".